Take a look around, think, and enjoy what you have - family, parents, children, friends, essential belongings, home, and more. There are people who don't even have that, so enjoy what you have. Over time, think about what you will do with the available resources to have what you lack, to gain the missing resources. With a computer, a mobile phone, you can find a job, love, good friends, leisure, trips, and more. Act to eliminate what you lack. Know and think a little, and dedicate time to everything around you, to create a comfort zone for yourself (for your wife or husband, children, friends, and others). Most regular, a person lacks nothing, or lacks very little, they don't enjoys in what they have and don't know what to do with everything they have.