Find a permanent hobby. Learn all hobbies from "Google"

You need some leisure hobby, you must have a leisure hobby apart from work. Look up all hobbies on Google, join a club to have a community leisure activity. For example, if you like to fish with other fishermen, or hunt, or like motorcycles, or are a car enthusiast, or a fan of new movies watching them in theaters and a fan of them, and so on. Have one hobby to make yourself meaningful in the community, among friends. This way you will always have a leisure pursuit that connects the community and makes you happy.