Try not to do anything you don't like or really don't want to do at all against everything

It means life is not leading you in that direction and nothing good will come of it. Do only what you like, or you have found that you already like. Find ways how to improve that. There are things that must be done, but they are also improved. Let's say your grandmother suffers from dementia and needs care in hysterics, then arrange free care from social workers (creating a job place) or move her where she is better - to a nursing home (you need to arrange documents once with the family doctor). Let's say your husband, mother, or wife does not work and you don't want to give them money - find a job for them, leaving only calls answerings about work in their job search, doing everything else yourself. Let's say you really dislike regularly to disrupt competitors - don't do it, during that time supplement your new directions.