Always win in smart ways, without any fight. Choose smart small and big victories - that's how you will win. If you fight - in both cases you will lose, it will repeat. For example, if your desired girl doesn't accept you - find another one who accepts and relationships are much better than constant struggle and explanation. For example, a man goes wrong ways and there is a constant futile struggle - send this link to him or speak to advice several times smartly, and give created opportunity, not shout - it will help without a long struggle. Always think of smart victories. For example, an employee constantly complains of fatigue - provide him with technology or assign a younger assistant, distributing tasks, or assigning lighter tasks. Win in smart ways, not figting.